My house is loud and chaotic. Three kids, a dog and all the noise they make is only part of it. We are a family of yellers. Unfortunately, I'm not talking about the color. With the exemption of Mike, although he will raise his voice when necessary, the kids and I seem to always yell about something. If someone is aggravating the others, there is yelling. If someone doesn't get their way, there is yelling. If a child is trying to parent one or more of the other children, there is yelling. We yell at the dog. We yell when we are mad. We yell when we want something. We yell when we don't want to do something. I yell from one room to get someone from another room, even if they are at the other end of the house. We are also very critical of and negative towards each other. It has become such a part of our family that we don't even realize when we do it. This is just not acceptable.
While praying this morning, I apologized to God for all the yelling we do, my critical spirit when it comes to my kids, and how it has bled over to how my kids react and respond to one another. God speaks to us in a still, quiet voice and that is how we should speak to those around us. Not knowing how to change myself and my family, I prayed for direction and guidance, along with a HUGE dose of wisdom. God showed me that instead of pointing out all the negative things the kids do, point out the good things and the not-so-perfect tries and reward them. He reminded me of the marble jar in my cabinet. Every time I saw the kids cooperating with each other, doing something nice, talking to each other without sarcasm or venom, etc., I will put a marble in a jar labeled with their name. At the end of the day, I will total up all the marbles in their respective jars and keep a running total. When they get to a set amount (say 30 or 50), we will redeem them for somewhere they want to go like Chuck E. Cheese or McDonald's. Now, if I see or hear them not getting along, I will give them a chance to correct it. If there is still a problem, I will remove a marble and they have to do a job from my Job Jar. (The Job Jar is filled with jobs I want done around the house like wash the backdoor windows, clean the walls beside the backdoor, wipe down the baseboards in different rooms, clean the hall bathroom, put up dishes, clean out the microwave, etc. I stopped using this jar a couple of years ago because the kids would BEG to pick out a job so it wasn't much of a punishment.)
After I got everything ready, I set the kids down and explained what we were doing and why. So far, there has been a good response. I have had to get on to the kids a couple of times but not as often as usual. The volume around here has gone down considerably. The kids are getting along much better. I know this is something I will have to stay on top of. The kids are going to revert back to their old habits and so will I. But change has got to come so I am hoping I can remain diligent and keep trying. Kids do not need to be raised in a house full of chaos. They get enough of it from the world around them. They don't need it at home too. This should be a place of shelter, a place to get away from the chaos and find peace.
Isaiah 26:12a LORD, you establish peace for us...
Isaiah 32:17 The fruit of that righteousness will be peace; its effect will be quietness and confidence forever.
Ephesians 4:3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.
Proverbs 16:7 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife.
Proverbs 3:17 Her (wisdom) ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace.
Psalm 34:14 Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.
Colossians 3:15 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.
Hebrews 12:14 Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.
1 Peter 3:11 They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it.
Isaiah 26:3 (HCSB)You will keep in perfect peace the mind [that is] dependent [on You], for it is trusting in You.
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Wednesday, June 29, 2011
Not Listening
Ever had one of those days when EVERYTHING you did (or didn't do), touched or said went horribly wrong? That was my day yesterday.
The kids were suppose to help me around the house with some chores (plus their everyday chores) AND get along with each other. Their reward for doing it would be to see CARS 2. Monday, I told my kids about it but wanted to wait until Nathan was here so he could go with us. My bunch helped out and were relatively good Monday.
Tuesday was a completely different story. No one wanted to listen. The kids wanted to do their own thing and did not get along. I was constantly having to get onto someone. Like Monday, they had their everyday chores to complete (get dressed, brush their teeth, make their beds, put up their pajamas, and generally pick up any mess). They also had to unload the dishwasher, reload the dishwasher, finish folding clothes and putting theirs up, pick up the living room and sweep the kitchen. It should have taken them two hours max (and that was if they took lots of breaks).
The movie was going to start at 1 p.m. At 12:30, I still had not gotten a shower (because I was busy being a referee), the dishes still hadn't been done, the clothes needed to be put up and the kids still needed to eat lunch. I know I should have told them we weren't going but to be honest, I was looking forward to two hours of relative peace and quiet. So, instead, I ignored God's promptings to stay home. We finally got out the door at 12:50 after I had a quick shower and only one child ate lunch. The line for tickets was long so by the time we got to the front, the 1 o'clock showing was sold out. The next showing was at 1:35 but was in 3-D. The problem with that was I wasn't planning on spending the extra $15 for 3-D glasses. I know I should have turned around and left and brought them back another day but I was being stubborn. (The next 2-D showing was at 4 p.m. but we had plans last night.) Instead of listening to God prompting me again to stay home, I paid the extra and went inside. Snacks at the concession stand cost almost $29 for four kids combos and a pretzel and Coke for me. The movie wasn't crowded and we were able to get some great seats towards the front. The kids did great during the movie, but towards the end, each one had to go to the bathroom (one child had to go three times!). When the credits started rolling, I wanted to wait around because Pixar usually has something extra at the end. That's when the complaining started again. And, wouldn't you know, Pixar didn't have anything extra!! Bummer!!
We exit the theater and start out towards the van. Next thing I know, Hannah and Nathan take off in a dead run across the parking lot for the van! Will and Andrew take off after them before I could stop them. Once we get home, the fighting starts again. But this time, I had more than my fill of it and did something really stupid. Instead of listening to God to separate the kids and put them all in timeout, I started yelling. I also started arguing with my mom over it. By the time Mike got home and Mel came to get Nathan, I had reached the knot at the end of my rope and was hanging on for dear life.
All throughout the day, God spoke to me in His still, quiet voice. Instead of stopping what I was doing and listening to what He had to say, I kept on barreling through my day making an absolute mess of it. God let me finish doing all the damage I could do, then helped by picking me up and holding me tight. Listening to God is hard to do but I hope I can become better at it. My life would be so much more peaceful!!
The kids were suppose to help me around the house with some chores (plus their everyday chores) AND get along with each other. Their reward for doing it would be to see CARS 2. Monday, I told my kids about it but wanted to wait until Nathan was here so he could go with us. My bunch helped out and were relatively good Monday.
Tuesday was a completely different story. No one wanted to listen. The kids wanted to do their own thing and did not get along. I was constantly having to get onto someone. Like Monday, they had their everyday chores to complete (get dressed, brush their teeth, make their beds, put up their pajamas, and generally pick up any mess). They also had to unload the dishwasher, reload the dishwasher, finish folding clothes and putting theirs up, pick up the living room and sweep the kitchen. It should have taken them two hours max (and that was if they took lots of breaks).
The movie was going to start at 1 p.m. At 12:30, I still had not gotten a shower (because I was busy being a referee), the dishes still hadn't been done, the clothes needed to be put up and the kids still needed to eat lunch. I know I should have told them we weren't going but to be honest, I was looking forward to two hours of relative peace and quiet. So, instead, I ignored God's promptings to stay home. We finally got out the door at 12:50 after I had a quick shower and only one child ate lunch. The line for tickets was long so by the time we got to the front, the 1 o'clock showing was sold out. The next showing was at 1:35 but was in 3-D. The problem with that was I wasn't planning on spending the extra $15 for 3-D glasses. I know I should have turned around and left and brought them back another day but I was being stubborn. (The next 2-D showing was at 4 p.m. but we had plans last night.) Instead of listening to God prompting me again to stay home, I paid the extra and went inside. Snacks at the concession stand cost almost $29 for four kids combos and a pretzel and Coke for me. The movie wasn't crowded and we were able to get some great seats towards the front. The kids did great during the movie, but towards the end, each one had to go to the bathroom (one child had to go three times!). When the credits started rolling, I wanted to wait around because Pixar usually has something extra at the end. That's when the complaining started again. And, wouldn't you know, Pixar didn't have anything extra!! Bummer!!
We exit the theater and start out towards the van. Next thing I know, Hannah and Nathan take off in a dead run across the parking lot for the van! Will and Andrew take off after them before I could stop them. Once we get home, the fighting starts again. But this time, I had more than my fill of it and did something really stupid. Instead of listening to God to separate the kids and put them all in timeout, I started yelling. I also started arguing with my mom over it. By the time Mike got home and Mel came to get Nathan, I had reached the knot at the end of my rope and was hanging on for dear life.
All throughout the day, God spoke to me in His still, quiet voice. Instead of stopping what I was doing and listening to what He had to say, I kept on barreling through my day making an absolute mess of it. God let me finish doing all the damage I could do, then helped by picking me up and holding me tight. Listening to God is hard to do but I hope I can become better at it. My life would be so much more peaceful!!
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Dwelling on the Positive
Dwelling on the positive things in life is hard. I tend to want to think about the bad, hard, and negative things that are going on and that have happened instead of focusing on the wonderful things God has provided.
For example, yesterday was my birthday. I love celebrate birthdays and I'm proud to tell people I am 43 years old. But something happened last night that I allowed to put a damper on my festivities. Instead of cooking my own birthday dinner, I asked my husband if we could go out instead. Where I wanted to go eat (Carraba's) was too far of a drive so I thought about all the options available near our house. I decided on On The Border, a place I haven' been to in a while but love. So, Mike and I loaded up the kids and headed off. When the kids were told where we were going, they started in with the whining and complaining. It didn't stop until we were on our way home. At the restaurant, they fought with each other. One didn't like the choices on the kid's menus and drink options. Another wanted to stand up and jump on the seat (we were sitting in a corner booth) or sit on the corner edge of the back of the seat. When the food came out, they weren't happy with the cheese on the nachos they ordered (it was melted instead of the nacho cheese). It went on and on. I know we bothered the people around us even though they didn't say anything.
What I should focus on (and need to remind myself to do regularly) is that I have a family that cares about me. My husband is awesome, loves me a lot and treats me like a queen. He still has a great job and we can afford to go out to eat. (I have two different friends that have just gone through job losses and don't know what to do.) My kids are healthy and love each other, even though they don't like each other some of the time. I have a house that I love to share with others any time of the year (as long as they don't mind the mess ;-)). Most important of all, I have a Savior who loves me, died for me and forgives me of all I've done wrong even though I will never be able to repay Him.
Life isn't going to go the way I expect or want it to. I just have to remember to focus on the blessings God has given me and trust Him to get me through the rough patches. He will ALWAYS be there for me.
For example, yesterday was my birthday. I love celebrate birthdays and I'm proud to tell people I am 43 years old. But something happened last night that I allowed to put a damper on my festivities. Instead of cooking my own birthday dinner, I asked my husband if we could go out instead. Where I wanted to go eat (Carraba's) was too far of a drive so I thought about all the options available near our house. I decided on On The Border, a place I haven' been to in a while but love. So, Mike and I loaded up the kids and headed off. When the kids were told where we were going, they started in with the whining and complaining. It didn't stop until we were on our way home. At the restaurant, they fought with each other. One didn't like the choices on the kid's menus and drink options. Another wanted to stand up and jump on the seat (we were sitting in a corner booth) or sit on the corner edge of the back of the seat. When the food came out, they weren't happy with the cheese on the nachos they ordered (it was melted instead of the nacho cheese). It went on and on. I know we bothered the people around us even though they didn't say anything.
What I should focus on (and need to remind myself to do regularly) is that I have a family that cares about me. My husband is awesome, loves me a lot and treats me like a queen. He still has a great job and we can afford to go out to eat. (I have two different friends that have just gone through job losses and don't know what to do.) My kids are healthy and love each other, even though they don't like each other some of the time. I have a house that I love to share with others any time of the year (as long as they don't mind the mess ;-)). Most important of all, I have a Savior who loves me, died for me and forgives me of all I've done wrong even though I will never be able to repay Him.
Life isn't going to go the way I expect or want it to. I just have to remember to focus on the blessings God has given me and trust Him to get me through the rough patches. He will ALWAYS be there for me.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Splinters
Splinters. Tiny pieces of wood, glass or metal that get under your skin that causes irritation and pain until you get them out. We all get them one time or another during our lifetimes. Sometime during the course of the day, Will got one in his finger. While I was trying to get it out, he screamed, jerked, cried, and anything else you can think of while I was trying to remove it. Even though it caused pain, it was only temporary. The pain would end as soon as the foreign object was gone. Instead of sitting still and letting me work, Will cried out, pitched a fit over it hurting and made it impossible for me to work. Instead of taking just a few seconds, it was all over in about forty-five minutes.
As I was working, explaining and observing, I thought of how we are with God.
Us: "God, it hurts!!"
God: "Yes, I know child, but only for a minute if you let me do what I need to do."
Us: "NOOO!! It's too painful!! STOP!! Please stop!!!"
God: "Let's keep going. I've almost got it."
Us: "NO!! I don't want to do it any more. Let me wait until tomorrow to take care of it."
God: "No, it will be worse tomorrow. I need to get it now and make it better."
Us: "Do we have to?"
God: "If you let me work, it won't take long. It will all be over with quickly."
Us: "Okay...first let me breathe...I'm not ready yet....just a little longer."
God: "Let me look at it."
Us: "Just a look. OUCH!! You hurt me!"
God: "I didn't touch you. I didn't even get close. Let me try again."
Us: "Do we have to do this?"
God: "Let me try again. Look, here it is. All better now."
Us: "It's over? Wow, it doesn't hurt anymore."
God: "See, I told you. Let me bandage it to protect it.....There...all done!"
If we would just let God work, He might accomplish what He needs a lot sooner. It would still hurt at times but not as bad. If we fight Him over it, it just makes the situation worse. Abba will have to dig deeper than He intended to get all the junk out. But, He will finish and make it all better.
Will knew I didn't want to hurt him. He knew the splinter had to come out. Because he fought me over it, the process took longer than it needed to. Isn't that the way we are when God wants to remove something potential dangerous or hurtful in our lives? We just need to trust Him to take care of it.
28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28, New King James Version)
As I was working, explaining and observing, I thought of how we are with God.
Us: "God, it hurts!!"
God: "Yes, I know child, but only for a minute if you let me do what I need to do."
Us: "NOOO!! It's too painful!! STOP!! Please stop!!!"
God: "Let's keep going. I've almost got it."
Us: "NO!! I don't want to do it any more. Let me wait until tomorrow to take care of it."
God: "No, it will be worse tomorrow. I need to get it now and make it better."
Us: "Do we have to?"
God: "If you let me work, it won't take long. It will all be over with quickly."
Us: "Okay...first let me breathe...I'm not ready yet....just a little longer."
God: "Let me look at it."
Us: "Just a look. OUCH!! You hurt me!"
God: "I didn't touch you. I didn't even get close. Let me try again."
Us: "Do we have to do this?"
God: "Let me try again. Look, here it is. All better now."
Us: "It's over? Wow, it doesn't hurt anymore."
God: "See, I told you. Let me bandage it to protect it.....There...all done!"
If we would just let God work, He might accomplish what He needs a lot sooner. It would still hurt at times but not as bad. If we fight Him over it, it just makes the situation worse. Abba will have to dig deeper than He intended to get all the junk out. But, He will finish and make it all better.
Will knew I didn't want to hurt him. He knew the splinter had to come out. Because he fought me over it, the process took longer than it needed to. Isn't that the way we are when God wants to remove something potential dangerous or hurtful in our lives? We just need to trust Him to take care of it.
28 And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. (Romans 8:28, New King James Version)
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Working Together
UPDATE: When listing Will's wonderful presents, I forgot some. He was really blessed to get a digital camera kit, a Triple Boost Rocket, a six shot Nerf gun, a plane kite, a Super Soaker water gun and four smaller water guns. Wasn't he blessed by his friends?
Yesterday was Will's birthday party. He received all kinds of neat toys: an arrow that sticks on everything, Iron Man action figure, Hot Wheels cars, two different Hot Wheels tracks, money and a Sonic card. Because we got in so late last night, I told Will he could play with his Hot Wheels tracks today. So, this morning after we got one track set up, all three kids started fighting over it. Andrew wanted the monster truck that came with one; Hannah wanted to be first; and Will wanted to be first plus try out all the features. After listening to this for a few minutes, I told them to put the track up. I wasn't going to listen to them argue over a toy all morning long. Immediately, they started working and playing together (and made sure I knew it). They were determined to play together and not have to put the toys up. Hannah remembered Will got a second track so she is setting it up so they can play with it too. Andrew got the box of Hot Wheels cars so they would have more vehicles to play with.
Isn't that how God wants us to be? I'm sure He gets tired of listening to our bickering and arguing over silly things. He wants us to work together, share our resources and get along. And, when we do, we find out we are actually having fun and enjoy each others company. What can we do to get along with our family members, co-workers, neighbors, etc? All it takes is for someone to take the first step, share our toys and say a nice word. Will that be you? It's something I need to think about and do, too.
Yesterday was Will's birthday party. He received all kinds of neat toys: an arrow that sticks on everything, Iron Man action figure, Hot Wheels cars, two different Hot Wheels tracks, money and a Sonic card. Because we got in so late last night, I told Will he could play with his Hot Wheels tracks today. So, this morning after we got one track set up, all three kids started fighting over it. Andrew wanted the monster truck that came with one; Hannah wanted to be first; and Will wanted to be first plus try out all the features. After listening to this for a few minutes, I told them to put the track up. I wasn't going to listen to them argue over a toy all morning long. Immediately, they started working and playing together (and made sure I knew it). They were determined to play together and not have to put the toys up. Hannah remembered Will got a second track so she is setting it up so they can play with it too. Andrew got the box of Hot Wheels cars so they would have more vehicles to play with.
Isn't that how God wants us to be? I'm sure He gets tired of listening to our bickering and arguing over silly things. He wants us to work together, share our resources and get along. And, when we do, we find out we are actually having fun and enjoy each others company. What can we do to get along with our family members, co-workers, neighbors, etc? All it takes is for someone to take the first step, share our toys and say a nice word. Will that be you? It's something I need to think about and do, too.
Friday, April 2, 2010
Good Friday
Today is Good Friday, but when you think about it, why is the day Jesus died a horrible and painful death on the cross called Good Friday? The way I think about it, Jesus' death and resurrection gives us access to the throne room of God and freedom from sin. When you ask Jesus for forgiveness from your sins and accept Him as your Savior and Lord, Jesus' death can be considered good. If He had not died, we would still be living in bondage, would have to find a substitute sacrifice (like in the Old Testament) and live under the law. Now, we live under grace. If you haven't accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, I would like to ask you to really think about it and read the following passages. If you have any questions, please let me know.
16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18 “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. 21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.” (John 3:16-21, New King James Version)
1 Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, 2 through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 3 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; 4 and perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
6 For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from wrath through Him. 10 For if when we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life. 11 And not only that, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received the reconciliation.
12 Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned— 13 (For until the law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law. 14 Nevertheless death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those who had not sinned according to the likeness of the transgression of Adam, who is a type of Him who was to come. 15 But the free gift is not like the offense. For if by the one man’s offense many died, much more the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abounded to many. 16 And the gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned. For the judgment which came from one offense resulted in condemnation, but the free gift which came from many offenses resulted in justification. 17 For if by the one man’s offense death reigned through the one, much more those who receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ.)
18 Therefore, as through one man’s offense judgment came to all men, resulting in condemnation, even so through one Man’s righteous act the free gift came to all men, resulting in justification of life. 19 For as by one man’s disobedience many were made sinners, so also by one Man’s obedience many will be made righteous.
20 Moreover the law entered that the offense might abound. But where sin abounded, grace abounded much more, 21 so that as sin reigned in death, even so grace might reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. (Romans 5, New King James Version)
16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.
18 “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. 19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. 21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.” (John 3:16-21, New King James Version)
1 Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, 2 through whom also we have access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. 3 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; 4 and perseverance, character; and character, hope. 5 Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
6 For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Much more then, having now been justified by His blood, we shall be saved from wrath through Him. 10 For if when we were enemies we were reconciled to God through the death of His Son, much more, having been reconciled, we shall be saved by His life. 11 And not only that, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received the reconciliation.
12 Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned— 13 (For until the law sin was in the world, but sin is not imputed when there is no law. 14 Nevertheless death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those who had not sinned according to the likeness of the transgression of Adam, who is a type of Him who was to come. 15 But the free gift is not like the offense. For if by the one man’s offense many died, much more the grace of God and the gift by the grace of the one Man, Jesus Christ, abounded to many. 16 And the gift is not like that which came through the one who sinned. For the judgment which came from one offense resulted in condemnation, but the free gift which came from many offenses resulted in justification. 17 For if by the one man’s offense death reigned through the one, much more those who receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness will reign in life through the One, Jesus Christ.)
18 Therefore, as through one man’s offense judgment came to all men, resulting in condemnation, even so through one Man’s righteous act the free gift came to all men, resulting in justification of life. 19 For as by one man’s disobedience many were made sinners, so also by one Man’s obedience many will be made righteous.
20 Moreover the law entered that the offense might abound. But where sin abounded, grace abounded much more, 21 so that as sin reigned in death, even so grace might reign through righteousness to eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. (Romans 5, New King James Version)
Thursday, March 18, 2010
What We Leave Behind
I have a weird habit when I read the newspaper. I like to read the Obituaries. You never know what you will discover when you read them. Many times, I have found relatives of friends or acquaintances that have passed that I was not aware of, nor was my mom. I also like to read about the history of the deceased. Quite a few served our country in the military, worked for many years in the same job, or retired from one job but moved onto another. What I like most is to see the number of family members that will remember the deceased.
In today's paper, there were quite a few that had large families. Francola Renfroe lived to be 100 years old. She left four daughters and six sons, 51 grandchildren, 90 great-grandchildren, 67 great-great-grandchildren, and 6 great-great-great-grandchildren. Eugene Mosley was 96. He left five daughters and three sons, 70 grandchildren, 125 great-grandchildren, and 25 great-great grandchildren. Mary Sue Garner, age 85, left four kids, six grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. Jack Henson Tiner, Jr, age 66 left two daughters, one son, seven grandchildren, and one great-grandchild.
Just imagine the history they left behind!! The changes they have seen and experienced; the difference they have made in people's lives; and the legacy they leave to their children, grandchildren and so on. I was blessed to have known, albeit not too well, my great-grandmother. My mom's grandmother lived until she was in her 90s. She was a few strong and godly woman. Every story I have heard and family member I've spoken with about her just raves about what a wonderful person she was. I think about Grandma Mae and the legacy she left behind when I read the obituaries like the ones above. The impact they made on their families will live forever.
God calls us to impact the world around us. We are told to preach the gospel to, Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria and the ends of the earth. If we can't physically go to the ends of the earth, maybe one of our children or grandchildren will go and impact the world for Christ. If you teach your children and grandchildren about the love of Christ, you are leaving a legacy that will live for eternity.
In today's paper, there were quite a few that had large families. Francola Renfroe lived to be 100 years old. She left four daughters and six sons, 51 grandchildren, 90 great-grandchildren, 67 great-great-grandchildren, and 6 great-great-great-grandchildren. Eugene Mosley was 96. He left five daughters and three sons, 70 grandchildren, 125 great-grandchildren, and 25 great-great grandchildren. Mary Sue Garner, age 85, left four kids, six grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. Jack Henson Tiner, Jr, age 66 left two daughters, one son, seven grandchildren, and one great-grandchild.
Just imagine the history they left behind!! The changes they have seen and experienced; the difference they have made in people's lives; and the legacy they leave to their children, grandchildren and so on. I was blessed to have known, albeit not too well, my great-grandmother. My mom's grandmother lived until she was in her 90s. She was a few strong and godly woman. Every story I have heard and family member I've spoken with about her just raves about what a wonderful person she was. I think about Grandma Mae and the legacy she left behind when I read the obituaries like the ones above. The impact they made on their families will live forever.
God calls us to impact the world around us. We are told to preach the gospel to, Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria and the ends of the earth. If we can't physically go to the ends of the earth, maybe one of our children or grandchildren will go and impact the world for Christ. If you teach your children and grandchildren about the love of Christ, you are leaving a legacy that will live for eternity.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Redeeming Love Movie
Facebook has a fan page for "Redeeming Love - The Movie." I LOVE this book!!! Francine Rivers knocked it out of the park when she wrote this. Every time I read it, I cry. It is a hard book to go through because of Angel's trials and hardships but it is well worth the struggles you may have. That said, I have my reservations about this movie.
Angel, one of the main characters, goes through Hell. I don't want to even describe some of what she went through because it is very painful, excruciating, to read. But, because of this pain, her "redemption" is even more remarkable and touching. I don't know how the writers will do it. The pain is one of the reasons that makes this book so wonderful. I hope the producers get some strong actors for this movie and do it justice. I would hate to see the movie be a flop or destroyed due to bad acting.
Angel, one of the main characters, goes through Hell. I don't want to even describe some of what she went through because it is very painful, excruciating, to read. But, because of this pain, her "redemption" is even more remarkable and touching. I don't know how the writers will do it. The pain is one of the reasons that makes this book so wonderful. I hope the producers get some strong actors for this movie and do it justice. I would hate to see the movie be a flop or destroyed due to bad acting.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
300th Post and a Common Theme
Can you believe this is my 300th post?! I am soo excited!! I started this blog almost two years ago and have loved every minute of it. Stay tuned for the next 300 posts. You'll might just learn something new. If you don't, well, don't worry about it! LOL
Our church is doing the Beth Moore bible study called "A Woman's Heart - God's Dwelling Place." This past week, we were looking at God's provisions for the Israelites while they were in the desert as described in Exodus 16. We read the verses about the manna and quail He gave them. They didn't have to worry about their food running out or their clothes wearing out. God took care of their needs and showed Himself to the His people over and over again.
On Sunday, January 24th Ernie continued his sermon series on PASSION: A Life on Fire for God. His topic this week was "Manna in the Morning: God's Diet of Spiritual Growth and Health" and referenced Exodus 16, the same chapter as in the bible study. Each day God is sufficient to provide what we need for that day. Instead of becoming Spiritually Malnourished, by gorging physically but starving spiritually, we need to follow the three principles of God's Spiritual Diet: 1) Eat God's Word daily 2) Eat what is fresh and 3) Digest what we eat by taking what we are learning and living it out. We are spiritual people and we must be fed through the spiritual Word of God.
Then, on January 27th, I was looking at the perpetual calendar we keep in the hall bathroom. The scripture for the day was this: "So I tell you, don't worry about everyday life - whether you have enough food, drink, and clothes. Doesn't life consist of more than food and clothing? Look at the birds. They don't need to plant or harvest or put food in barns because your heavenly Father feeds them. And you are far more valuable to Him than they are." Matthew 6:25-26
Do you see a theme here?! I am still working it all out and praying for God to show me EXACTLY what it is He wants me to see. But, what I've come up with so far is God wants me to read His word, mull over it, think about what He is saying then live it out. I don't need to worry about what to say to people He brings across my path. I just need to listen to His still quiet voice instead of ignoring it and step out in faith. God will provide what I need when I need it.
Our church is doing the Beth Moore bible study called "A Woman's Heart - God's Dwelling Place." This past week, we were looking at God's provisions for the Israelites while they were in the desert as described in Exodus 16. We read the verses about the manna and quail He gave them. They didn't have to worry about their food running out or their clothes wearing out. God took care of their needs and showed Himself to the His people over and over again.
On Sunday, January 24th Ernie continued his sermon series on PASSION: A Life on Fire for God. His topic this week was "Manna in the Morning: God's Diet of Spiritual Growth and Health" and referenced Exodus 16, the same chapter as in the bible study. Each day God is sufficient to provide what we need for that day. Instead of becoming Spiritually Malnourished, by gorging physically but starving spiritually, we need to follow the three principles of God's Spiritual Diet: 1) Eat God's Word daily 2) Eat what is fresh and 3) Digest what we eat by taking what we are learning and living it out. We are spiritual people and we must be fed through the spiritual Word of God.
Then, on January 27th, I was looking at the perpetual calendar we keep in the hall bathroom. The scripture for the day was this: "So I tell you, don't worry about everyday life - whether you have enough food, drink, and clothes. Doesn't life consist of more than food and clothing? Look at the birds. They don't need to plant or harvest or put food in barns because your heavenly Father feeds them. And you are far more valuable to Him than they are." Matthew 6:25-26
Do you see a theme here?! I am still working it all out and praying for God to show me EXACTLY what it is He wants me to see. But, what I've come up with so far is God wants me to read His word, mull over it, think about what He is saying then live it out. I don't need to worry about what to say to people He brings across my path. I just need to listen to His still quiet voice instead of ignoring it and step out in faith. God will provide what I need when I need it.
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Sonic Drive-Ins Dilemma
Sonic is one of my favorite places to eat. I love eating in my car or on the "patio" when it is warm. The extra-long chili cheese coneys are awesome, as are their chili cheese fries. Their chocolate banana shakes are wonderful with small pieces of banana. One of my favorite times to go is during Happy Hour where I can get a cherry coke for half price. YEAH!
Okay, I need your help. Well, actually, I just want your thoughts on tipping at Sonic. Should you or should you not tip the carhop that delivers your food? It seems that most of the time I'm there I'm low (or have no) cash. In that case, I use the debit machine there on the stand. It does not ask if you want to tip. But, it seems like they are considered waitresses because they bring your food out to your car.
Sometimes I tip, but, I have to say most of the time I don't. I don't want to seem rude. Does anyone else have this problem? I would love to know what you do.
Okay, I need your help. Well, actually, I just want your thoughts on tipping at Sonic. Should you or should you not tip the carhop that delivers your food? It seems that most of the time I'm there I'm low (or have no) cash. In that case, I use the debit machine there on the stand. It does not ask if you want to tip. But, it seems like they are considered waitresses because they bring your food out to your car.
Sometimes I tip, but, I have to say most of the time I don't. I don't want to seem rude. Does anyone else have this problem? I would love to know what you do.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Kids and Food
What is it with kids and food? Does anyone else have this problem with their kids? You make something you think (and are pretty sure) they will enjoy and it takes an act of Congress to get them to take just one bite. Most of the time it's not anything new. It's something they have had numerous times before and even liked but, for some reason, they won't touch it now. Then, you just throw something together and you think it tastes just okay but they rave about it.
One day this week I was in the mood for soup. The only meat I had available was smoked sausage so I cut it into small bites, sautéed it and made vegetable soup. The kids gobbled it down and raved on and on about it. Mike and I thought it was okay but not as good as what the kids made it out to be.
Yesterday I cooked a pot roast in the crock pot, made loaded mashed potatoes, and heated up a can of green beans. I also cooked a can of biscuits (Hannah refuses to eat ones I make from Bisquick) and made a gravy from the liquid left over from the roast. Hannah and Will both gave us a fight about eating. Andrew ate pretty well but it took some time (nothing unusual). At first, Hannah ate okay and raved about the potatoes. Then, all of a sudden, she turned into Ms. Hyde, refused to eat her meat and gave us a fit. Will, on the other hand, took very minute bites and took forever to eat half his plate of food (he didn't have a lot to begin with).
This morning, I made a homemade Orange Coffee Cake, the same one I made for Dick and Daphne while at their house. When I made it the first time, the kids all ate a bite and seemed to like it. What they didn't like was that it was called a coffee cake. No matter how many times I told them that it didn't contain coffee but you traditionally ate it with coffee, they did not believe me. I figured they would eat it (it was still hot and fresh from the oven) but they wanted frozen waffles instead.
UHGH!! It would be nice if they were consistent with their likes and dislikes and try new things without complaining. One thing I do, and generally have good results, is to bluff them. If we are eating something new or if they are giving me fits about something they don't like, I tell them they ate all of it the last time I made it, they loved it and asked for more. Something else I did was to tell Hannah that her friend Layne liked a particular meal. Most of the time, if not all, she would eat it all and ask for more. That tactic worked when we were eating a lot of Homemade Gourmet meals since Layne's mom is a consultant for the company.
One day this week I was in the mood for soup. The only meat I had available was smoked sausage so I cut it into small bites, sautéed it and made vegetable soup. The kids gobbled it down and raved on and on about it. Mike and I thought it was okay but not as good as what the kids made it out to be.
Yesterday I cooked a pot roast in the crock pot, made loaded mashed potatoes, and heated up a can of green beans. I also cooked a can of biscuits (Hannah refuses to eat ones I make from Bisquick) and made a gravy from the liquid left over from the roast. Hannah and Will both gave us a fight about eating. Andrew ate pretty well but it took some time (nothing unusual). At first, Hannah ate okay and raved about the potatoes. Then, all of a sudden, she turned into Ms. Hyde, refused to eat her meat and gave us a fit. Will, on the other hand, took very minute bites and took forever to eat half his plate of food (he didn't have a lot to begin with).
This morning, I made a homemade Orange Coffee Cake, the same one I made for Dick and Daphne while at their house. When I made it the first time, the kids all ate a bite and seemed to like it. What they didn't like was that it was called a coffee cake. No matter how many times I told them that it didn't contain coffee but you traditionally ate it with coffee, they did not believe me. I figured they would eat it (it was still hot and fresh from the oven) but they wanted frozen waffles instead.
UHGH!! It would be nice if they were consistent with their likes and dislikes and try new things without complaining. One thing I do, and generally have good results, is to bluff them. If we are eating something new or if they are giving me fits about something they don't like, I tell them they ate all of it the last time I made it, they loved it and asked for more. Something else I did was to tell Hannah that her friend Layne liked a particular meal. Most of the time, if not all, she would eat it all and ask for more. That tactic worked when we were eating a lot of Homemade Gourmet meals since Layne's mom is a consultant for the company.
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Veteran's Day
Today is the day we set aside to remember those who have served, those who are currently serving, and those who made the ultimate sacrifice in one of the fine branches of the United States military. Thank you for everything. The sacrifices you made makes it possible for me and my family to enjoy the freedoms we hold so precious and dear. THANK YOU!!
On that note, if any of my readers are currently in the military or have served in our fine armed forces, go by Applebee's restaurants for either lunch or dinner. Applebee's is giving our veterans and servicemen a free meal. You get to pick one of nine choices and a drink. You must show some sort of proof that you served or are serving to get your meal. If you go to http://www.applebees.com/, you will find a list of the proof they will accept (even a picture of you in uniform) and what meals you can choose from. They did this last year at a few select Applebee's. The response they received was so overwhelming that they decided to offer it nationwide.
On that note, if any of my readers are currently in the military or have served in our fine armed forces, go by Applebee's restaurants for either lunch or dinner. Applebee's is giving our veterans and servicemen a free meal. You get to pick one of nine choices and a drink. You must show some sort of proof that you served or are serving to get your meal. If you go to http://www.applebees.com/, you will find a list of the proof they will accept (even a picture of you in uniform) and what meals you can choose from. They did this last year at a few select Applebee's. The response they received was so overwhelming that they decided to offer it nationwide.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Up and Down Kind of Day
Today has been one of those up and down kind of days.
***It's Dick's 70th birthday today (as mentioned in my earlier post). YEAH!!
***We are remembering the events of 9/11/01 (also mentioned in my earlier post). Ooohhh!
***I got a lot of errands done and phone calls made this morning. The best part is I saved $14.60 in coupons today while doing a little grocery shopping!!! BIG YEAH!!!
***Right after Andrew and I got home this afternoon, Mike's Aunt LaNell called. His grandmother, Pernell, (his mother's mom) passed away around 11:30 CST today. She had been sick with dementia for a very long time now. She was 86 years old. Big OOOOHHHH!
***Hannah's school is having a Back To School Bash tonight and we are going for a little while. YEAH!
***My semi-new glasses have a scratch right in my line of sight. The eye doctor's office said they are still under warranty so it shouldn't cost anything to replace the lens. Oh! and YEAH!
We are to thank God for everything that happens in our lives: good and bad. Thank you God for all You do for us, giving us an opportunity to learn and praise You when things don't go the right way. Thank You also for giving us the opportunity for the good and pleasant things of our lives that come from You! AMEN!!
***It's Dick's 70th birthday today (as mentioned in my earlier post). YEAH!!
***We are remembering the events of 9/11/01 (also mentioned in my earlier post). Ooohhh!
***I got a lot of errands done and phone calls made this morning. The best part is I saved $14.60 in coupons today while doing a little grocery shopping!!! BIG YEAH!!!
***Right after Andrew and I got home this afternoon, Mike's Aunt LaNell called. His grandmother, Pernell, (his mother's mom) passed away around 11:30 CST today. She had been sick with dementia for a very long time now. She was 86 years old. Big OOOOHHHH!
***Hannah's school is having a Back To School Bash tonight and we are going for a little while. YEAH!
***My semi-new glasses have a scratch right in my line of sight. The eye doctor's office said they are still under warranty so it shouldn't cost anything to replace the lens. Oh! and YEAH!
We are to thank God for everything that happens in our lives: good and bad. Thank you God for all You do for us, giving us an opportunity to learn and praise You when things don't go the right way. Thank You also for giving us the opportunity for the good and pleasant things of our lives that come from You! AMEN!!
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Fear and God
Today, in our study of Esther, Beth Moore spoke about Esther's contemplation of going to the king without his asking for her and facing certain death. In our workbook there was a fill-in-the-blank section. It read, "Facing any fear. And if ____________, then _________." Instead of listing in the first blank the fear we are facing now that, if it actually occurred would send us over the edge, we are to leave it blank. If the enemy (Satan) knows what we fear, he will keep torturing us with the thought of it occurring. But, if we give our fears to God, He will be there with us if (and/or when) we actually face it. Here are some quotes from the video:
"Can you imagine living without fear? We can break free of our fear."
"My faith should not be conditional. We need to trust God no matter what happens. God is good and faithful."
"You may be one brave decision away from an important step in your destiny."
"My God will be faithful to me."
"We will never know abundant life if we are in the grip of the fear of death."
"Are we going to die a thousand deaths (fearing death) in fear of the one (actually dying)?"
"Courage is not the absence of fear but that something is more important than fear."
"Death is not our final destination. It is a part of our destiny."
So, in the blank above, we should all put, "And if whatever, then GOD!!!" My God will take care of me. God is bigger than whatever it is we fear. 1 John 4:18 says "Perfect love casts out fear." Since He carries us in the palm of His hand, why should I fear? Even if I was to die, I am going to live forever in Heaven with the glory of God. Life here is temporal; life in heaven is eternal.
If you don't know, or aren't sure, if you are going to heaven to live with Jesus, please let me know. You can know for certain where you will go when you die. I hope to see you there one day (just, hopefully, not anytime soon).
"Can you imagine living without fear? We can break free of our fear."
"My faith should not be conditional. We need to trust God no matter what happens. God is good and faithful."
"You may be one brave decision away from an important step in your destiny."
"My God will be faithful to me."
"We will never know abundant life if we are in the grip of the fear of death."
"Are we going to die a thousand deaths (fearing death) in fear of the one (actually dying)?"
"Courage is not the absence of fear but that something is more important than fear."
"Death is not our final destination. It is a part of our destiny."
So, in the blank above, we should all put, "And if whatever, then GOD!!!" My God will take care of me. God is bigger than whatever it is we fear. 1 John 4:18 says "Perfect love casts out fear." Since He carries us in the palm of His hand, why should I fear? Even if I was to die, I am going to live forever in Heaven with the glory of God. Life here is temporal; life in heaven is eternal.
If you don't know, or aren't sure, if you are going to heaven to live with Jesus, please let me know. You can know for certain where you will go when you die. I hope to see you there one day (just, hopefully, not anytime soon).
Monday, August 31, 2009
Being Flexible
I have come to the realization that, even though I may want to be, when it comes to big changes, I am not that flexible. For years, I thought I was very flexible, being able to go with the flow like the best. But, alas, that is not so. When something big changes (kids getting out of school, kids going to school, small changes in my daily routine or plans, etc), it throws me for a loop. I wander around like a zombie, trying to get my bearings straight. All of this finally hit me this year when the kids got out for the summer. (Everyone else probably noticed it long before I did - sometimes I'm slow.) My normal routine of going to the gym after dropping the kids off at school came to a screeching halt. Now, the kids and I were sleeping later, while Andrew was still taking his naps at the same time. This put going to the gym low on my list of priorities. Now that the kids are back in school, it is taking me a long time to get the idea in my head that now I can go to the Y and work out again, without having to drag the kids with me or interrupting Andrew's nap.
Little changes are okay, for the most part. But, even those can make my head spin at times (which is a unique thing to see - LOL).
Case in point - this morning, my plan was to drop the kids off and head to Sam's to get a tire replaced. If I got there early enough, maybe the wait wouldn't be as long. Well, that idea was blown out of the water when Andrew didn't wake up at his usual time. As of 9:30 this morning, he is STILL sleeping. (In his defense, he only got about a ten minute nap yesterday in the car. Mike said Andrew also woke up a couple of times during the night.) So, instead of going to Sam's today, I guess it will have to be tomorrow or Wednesday. There is plenty for me to do around here; I just need to get my head in order and get to work.
One other thing - my dear, sweet friend Stacy sent me an e-mail last night. She and her family are praying about coming to this area during Spring Break. I am hoping and praying they can come. It has been about ten years since we last saw each other. Pray that God will work out all the details and they can make it. It would be awesome to get to see her and her family again!! We've both added a few kids to our families since I saw her last.
Little changes are okay, for the most part. But, even those can make my head spin at times (which is a unique thing to see - LOL).
Case in point - this morning, my plan was to drop the kids off and head to Sam's to get a tire replaced. If I got there early enough, maybe the wait wouldn't be as long. Well, that idea was blown out of the water when Andrew didn't wake up at his usual time. As of 9:30 this morning, he is STILL sleeping. (In his defense, he only got about a ten minute nap yesterday in the car. Mike said Andrew also woke up a couple of times during the night.) So, instead of going to Sam's today, I guess it will have to be tomorrow or Wednesday. There is plenty for me to do around here; I just need to get my head in order and get to work.
One other thing - my dear, sweet friend Stacy sent me an e-mail last night. She and her family are praying about coming to this area during Spring Break. I am hoping and praying they can come. It has been about ten years since we last saw each other. Pray that God will work out all the details and they can make it. It would be awesome to get to see her and her family again!! We've both added a few kids to our families since I saw her last.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Gracy
These pictures of Gracy were taken on July 19th.
Today, Mike and I had to make the hardest decision of our lives, so far. We had to put our dog Gracy down today. As most of you know, she was diagnosed with osteosarcoma (bone cancer) in March. In the last week or so, Gracy was having lots of trouble using her back legs. She seemed to have very little control over them and had great difficulty walking, especially across the kitchen floor and the outside patio. This weekend, Mike and I had to put a towel underneath the back portion of torso to help her get up. Mike had to carry her outside so she could go to the bathroom. Gracy went from a dog who loved to go outside anytime anyone was out there to only going out twice a day. She seemed and acted fine, like nothing was wrong, as long as she was lying down. We both knew that it wasn't fair to her to let her suffer like she was so we made the very difficult decision. Mike and I were both with her until the end, telling her how much she meant to us, that we loved her and that we would see her again.
So far, Baron has been acting okay. I'm sure it will hit him in a few days that Gracy is gone for good. They have been together since they were conceived. They were litter mates and have only been away from each other just a handful of times. We are just going to love on him and try to help him get through it the best we can.
The kids are all taking it differently. Andrew, of course, really doesn't know what is going on. We've told him what happened but I don't think he really understands. Will is just matter-of-fact. He says that Gracy died and is in heaven, but really doesn't show much emotion. It may hit him full on later, too. Hannah is just like her mom. She will be fine one minute and then balling her eyes out the next. I have been balling off and on since we arrived at the vet's. Mike cried while we were at the vet (it's the first time I think I've seen him cry in all the years we've been together). He had to go to work today and hopes to get off a little early.
Gracy is now in God's hands and He and Jesus are taking very good care of her until we get there. She has plenty of playmates: Brandy, Yogi, Pappy, Browser, Shadow, Stormy, Velvet, Barron (Mike's childhood dog), Lucy (Gracy and Baron's mom), and more I can't even list. I told the kids that she is telling everyone about her owners and what fun they were and how much she loved them. She can now chase the ducks, squirrels, birds, and whatever else catches her fancy to her heart's content. She is no longer in any pain and can walk and run perfectly.
Time is suppose to heal all wounds. But, from my experience, they don't heal but just get easier to deal with. We love you Gracy. You will ALWAYS be in our thoughts and prayers.
Friday, April 24, 2009
Lazy Evenings
Tonight was one of those wonderful lazy evenings. Mom needed her thermostat replaced and asked Mike for help. Since he was going over, Melanie, me and the kids joined them and brought pizza. We ate outside on the patio, enjoying the wonderful temps. It was the best kind of dinner. All I had to do was pick up the pizza (I didn't have to cook - WHOO HOOO!!) . We ate outside and used paper plates. Mom had a new table cloth that we used on the table. The kids drank Capri Suns and the adults had Cokes. Clean-up was a breeze. I just put everything in the pizza boxes and threw them in the outside garbage can. Mom, Melanie and I sat outside watching the kids play while Mike worked on the thermostat. NICE!!!
On a sad note, Gracy our dog isn't doing too well. To look at her, you would think that nothing is wrong. She wants to be loved on and loves to lay on her back in the hall where it is cool. You only notice a problem when she gets up and walks. Her limp has gotten more pronounced. Every day I wake up thinking it could be the day I have to take her to the vet and say good-bye. I dread it so much. The kids know it's coming. Will tells me, matter of fact in his 5-year old way, that Gracy is going to die. Hannah and I had a good cry about it the other day. I've tried to prepare them the best I know how. We've talked about Gracy going to heaven and how happy she will be. We've talked about the verses in Ecclesiastes where there is a time for everything. They know that God and Jesus is going to take good care of her until we get there.* But, it is still hard.
*I know the bible doesn't say whether or not our pets or other animals are going to heaven. The way I see it, if God loves us enough to create such a beautiful world for us to live in and give us animals to take care of, why wouldn't He have a place for our four-legged babies? He gives us the desires of our hearts. So, He knows we desire a special place for our pets when they die. I'm not saying animals can get saved. That's for God to work out. I am saying that I think God has provided a special place in heaven for those animals that have become our family.
On a sad note, Gracy our dog isn't doing too well. To look at her, you would think that nothing is wrong. She wants to be loved on and loves to lay on her back in the hall where it is cool. You only notice a problem when she gets up and walks. Her limp has gotten more pronounced. Every day I wake up thinking it could be the day I have to take her to the vet and say good-bye. I dread it so much. The kids know it's coming. Will tells me, matter of fact in his 5-year old way, that Gracy is going to die. Hannah and I had a good cry about it the other day. I've tried to prepare them the best I know how. We've talked about Gracy going to heaven and how happy she will be. We've talked about the verses in Ecclesiastes where there is a time for everything. They know that God and Jesus is going to take good care of her until we get there.* But, it is still hard.
*I know the bible doesn't say whether or not our pets or other animals are going to heaven. The way I see it, if God loves us enough to create such a beautiful world for us to live in and give us animals to take care of, why wouldn't He have a place for our four-legged babies? He gives us the desires of our hearts. So, He knows we desire a special place for our pets when they die. I'm not saying animals can get saved. That's for God to work out. I am saying that I think God has provided a special place in heaven for those animals that have become our family.
Friday, April 10, 2009
Good Friday
It's Good Friday and I've been so busy I haven't got a chance to think about the significance of the day, until now. Two thousand years ago, Jesus was betrayed, beaten, whipped, lied about and thoroughly humiliated and degraded. His "friends" ran at the first sign of trouble. His Father turned His back on him. Jesus was left alone among his persecutors and torturers to die a very painful and grueling death. But, that didn't stop him from loving them and forgiving them. If it were me, I don't think I could have done it. I would just say "Leave me alone!! Go away!! You weren't there when I desperately needed you!" Thanks to God that my salvation doesn't come from what I do (or have done) or who I forgive. My salvation comes from Jesus, fully God and fully man, GOD INCARNATE who forgives ME!!!!
Praise to God that we don't worship a Savior that is dead and still in the ground. We worship a Savior that rose from the dead, lives in Heaven and sits at the right hand of the Father as an intercessor on our behalf. After Jesus died, God ripped the temple veil between the Holy place and the Most Holy place from TOP to BOTTOM! No human man could have done this. Only God could do it as a symbol that we no long need a temple high priest to act as an intercessor. Now, through Jesus' death AND resurrection, WE can approach God's heavenly throne and ask for forgiveness of our sin and be forgiven.
Thank you, Jesus, for your act of sacrifice. Thank you for dying on the cross for me and my sins. Thank you that all I have to do is ask for forgiveness and for you to live in my heart forever and it is done. Praise you God for being our Heavenly Father who loves us so much that you couldn't let us die without giving us a chance to follow you. AMEN!!
Praise to God that we don't worship a Savior that is dead and still in the ground. We worship a Savior that rose from the dead, lives in Heaven and sits at the right hand of the Father as an intercessor on our behalf. After Jesus died, God ripped the temple veil between the Holy place and the Most Holy place from TOP to BOTTOM! No human man could have done this. Only God could do it as a symbol that we no long need a temple high priest to act as an intercessor. Now, through Jesus' death AND resurrection, WE can approach God's heavenly throne and ask for forgiveness of our sin and be forgiven.
Thank you, Jesus, for your act of sacrifice. Thank you for dying on the cross for me and my sins. Thank you that all I have to do is ask for forgiveness and for you to live in my heart forever and it is done. Praise you God for being our Heavenly Father who loves us so much that you couldn't let us die without giving us a chance to follow you. AMEN!!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Andrew's First Day of MDO
Yesterday, September 9th, was Andrew's first day of Mother's Day Out. He is going to the same school Will attended last year and that Hannah attended when she was four. He will be going two days a week (Tuesdays and Thursdays) from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Andrew's teachers are really nice. They are Mrs. Valerie and Mrs. Kim. They both said he did really well. When I first dropped him off, he started crying. I gave him his blanket and he settled down a little. Kim said Andrew fussed a little after I left but calmed down when they took the class to the indoor playground. After that, he was fine. When Kim tried to take his blanket away when they went to play, Andrew let her know really quick that it was not acceptable. He ate all of his lunch and sat in his chair like a big boy. At nap time, he didn't want to stay on his mat. After a couple of times, Andrew finally laid there long enough and fell asleep. He was snoozing good when it was time to get him. He didn't want to wake up.
Most of the day, I felt lost not having Andrew with me. But, I kept myself busy running errands and attending a Board Meeting at church. This year I can finally go to lunch with Hannah and Will and even get a little involved in their classes. They don't allow younger siblings to come with you so I haven't been able to do anything special for the kids while they were at school. Now I can. YEAH!!
Changing the subject, for the first time I think ever, I am excited about this year's presidential campaign. I love Sarah Palin!! She is the shot in the arm this country needs. A few months ago, Mike and I heard her on the Glenn Beck program on CNN talking about drilling for oil in Alaska. She and the state of Alaska were going to start a law suit suing the United States for the right to drill for oil in their own backyard. Even then, I knew there was something special about her. I caught part of her speech during the Republican Convention and just loved it. She said everything that I have been wanting to say but didn't know how to put it into words. Sarah Palin is a phenomenal woman. She seems to be a strong Christian who is not afraid of the big machines in DC. She knows Who goes before her and Who gives her the strength she needs. GO SARAH!!!
Most of the day, I felt lost not having Andrew with me. But, I kept myself busy running errands and attending a Board Meeting at church. This year I can finally go to lunch with Hannah and Will and even get a little involved in their classes. They don't allow younger siblings to come with you so I haven't been able to do anything special for the kids while they were at school. Now I can. YEAH!!
Changing the subject, for the first time I think ever, I am excited about this year's presidential campaign. I love Sarah Palin!! She is the shot in the arm this country needs. A few months ago, Mike and I heard her on the Glenn Beck program on CNN talking about drilling for oil in Alaska. She and the state of Alaska were going to start a law suit suing the United States for the right to drill for oil in their own backyard. Even then, I knew there was something special about her. I caught part of her speech during the Republican Convention and just loved it. She said everything that I have been wanting to say but didn't know how to put it into words. Sarah Palin is a phenomenal woman. She seems to be a strong Christian who is not afraid of the big machines in DC. She knows Who goes before her and Who gives her the strength she needs. GO SARAH!!!
Sunday, March 23, 2008
He is Risen, Indeed!!!!
Happy Easter from the family!!
Mike and the kids
Andrew's Easter basket (minus the book "Go Dog. Go!")
Hannah's Easter Basket (minus the book "Put Me In The Zoo")
Will's Easter BasketHope everyone had a great Easter celebration. The reason for our celebration is because Jesus rose from the dead and now sits at the right hand of God the Father. Because of Jesus' death on the cross and his resurrection from the dead, those who believe in Him have forgiveness from their sins and have eternal life. That is cause to celebrate!!! He is Risen!! He is Risen, Indeed!!!
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